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I'm penning this article based on my own opinion and if it does not please you, my apologies for that... Sabari Malai has been revered as one of the most sacred pilgrimage destination for Hindus, in particular Ayappa devotees. In the history of mankind, the Sannidhanam never allowed woman pilgrims who have attended age and before menopause. As we all know, pilgrims to Sabari Malai are only allowed into the Sannidhanam after strict 48 days of fasting. Fasting includes dietary control, refraining from sexual pleasures, comfort, etc. Start of the 48 days fasting is initiated by a Guru and the devotee starts wearing Mala around the neck to signify this fasting period. Once the Mala is worn, the male devotee is required to perform prayers daily and recite the Naama of Swami Ayappa. Having said that, the mental and physical state of the devotee is fully devoted to the Lord of Sabari Malai. The steadfastness to take the tough journey through the mountains that reach the pilgrim spot i

More often than not, people define spiritual maturity based on the ability to meditate, get enlightened, able to walk on fire, able to walk on water, blah blah blah. Here I'm not talking about enlightenment or awakening of the Chakras etc. Let us get to the fundamentals first. Steadfastness He or she who realizes the oneness in the nothingness and fulfillment in the emptiness. Ego-less, pride-less, living a simple life, no worldly desires, and nothing provokes him or her to be overly joyed or dismayed. the steadfastness and calmness under any circumstances goes to show that he or she has truly surrendered and accepts that what may come is the will of the almighty. Nothing floats you up high in joy and nothing could drown you down under is sorrow. These requires practice to master one's own emotions. Also, one who is steadfast does not lose trust in God and never gives up. Often we hear people say they have converted to a different religion or started to follow a differ

Often times, I get questioned by people why do we do Tarpanam. The question arises in 2 context.  1. A non believer of God trying to question with narrow mindedness and with limited knowledge of Sanathana Dharma and with expectation that results that are not seen, heard, felt, tasted, spoken and smelled is untrue. 2. A true believer of God trying to gain knowledge and ensure that they perform a ritual meaningfully. For the first questioner, this article does not apply as these folks need to be approached in a different manner. This article is particularly for the 2nd questioner who is trying to understand the significance of the ritual and wants to perform the ritual for betterment. Starting with the definitions: Tarpanam comes from the word 'Trup' which means 'to satisfy others'. Tila Tarpanam is usage of Tila (black sesame seeds) to satisfy others. Why is Tila used instead of pepper corns, mustard seeds or even some tasty Pizza or Pasta?  Wh